Instead of realities, see actuality

A bit of intro

Universe is perfectly balanced. For every force, there’s an opposing force arising at some point in time and space. For whatever value that you have, there’s somebody who has anti-value. For every person on this planet, there’s an oppositely different person. For every statement you make, there will be somebody shouting back at you: “Bullshit! You’re totally wrong!” For every infatuation that you create, there’s a resentment awaiting for you already. It doesn’t just “happen” randomly. By falling to infatuation, you emit an energetic charge, for which an opposite charge is created simultaneously, and balancing force will kick in at some point in time and space.

Now, for every challenge that you receive, there’s a support already created as well. The faster you can acknowledge it, the further you’ve moved on the wisdom scale. Universe will never give you more challenges than supports, or more supports than challenges. You will never give yourself more challenges than supports, or more supports than challenges.

Taking leaders as example

Whatever you do in your life, you’ll attract an equal amount of people who support you, and an equal amount of people who hate you. Let’s call them supporters and haters. The more you’ve revealed your ultimate purpose, the more authentically you live, the more of a leader you become – so the numbers of supporters and haters ( = followers) simultaneously increase.

If you’re an artist, you’re probably quite sensitive and afraid of your haters. But you also have quite a few supporters which bring you smile when they comment your work.

If you happen to be in a seminar, you’ll notice that some people stand up to applaud the speaker genuinely, while others do it just because they don’t want to be different from the crowd or appear arrogant. In their mind they actually hate this speaker. There’s no speaker in the room who is supported by all listeners.

And that’s great, because supporters encourage you to dream more, while haters make you more resilient and stronger.

The more important (or famous) a person is, the bigger the crowd of their supporters and haters. Just think of Justin Bieber. Or Donald Trump. It is very common to see in the US that two opposing parties have a rough fight for the President election. It’s because society is polarized, and when two greatly opposing leaders meet, they will have a crowd of voters divided into parts. So, if you think that Donald Trump is a bad person – you will vote against him. If you think he’s a good person – you will vote for him. That’s how masses think. Masses are polarized and they judge everything as “bad” or “good”. Of course, there’s a 3rd group of people – those who understand it. Those who are wise enough to see through polarisations into actuality.

When you look deeper, when you read books written by Donald Trump and books written by his opposite candidate, you will see that throughout their lives, both of these people gave tremendous value to society, they did extraordinary feats and already changed the world a lot, before even coming to elections. They just communicate different values. And they live according to different values.


I will repeat: they just communicate different values. But none of the candidates is ultimately “good” or “bad”. When you understand that – you stop taking a stance, you stop polarizing yourself, you stop falling into other people’s realities – and then, you see the Actuality.

Actuality is like looking at things from above, from God’s eye. The ultimate creator is not constrained by time or space. All He sees is never ending, eternal processes, eternal change. Change is all about going from One to the Many, and then back to One. It’s a Universal principle which is observed at all levels of our lives.

When you stop taking a stance, when you stop judging, when you see the Actuality – that’s when you start living from the balance, from the great and true love. And that’s when you can start sharing this love with others and revealing the truths that you see from your heart. And, my friends, this is the point when you naturally grow into leader and become the target of polarised forces. To me, it’s the most perfect and beautiful Divine order in its incredible glory. It’s pleasurable, painful, and liberating at the same time.

Our ego drives us into polarisations. This mother*ucker wants to fight, he wants to create wars, he wants to prove himself. And that’s okay. That’s inevitable part of life. But not for everyone.

There will always be some people who manage to rise above those realities and see the Actuality. You might just be one of them. Maybe not in all areas of life. Maybe just one. Maybe you’ve already reached this level in one or more areas. If you have – perfect time to thank Yourself. If not – perfect time to thank Yourself.

My painting: Wisdom vs. Cravings & Avoidance
My digital artwork “Wisdom” on the big screen in Singapore